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Fairies in various human-like and animal-like forms feast in a forest together

Ancestor Feasts in an Interfaith Family

New Moon nights are ancestor nights for me. This tradition is primarily based on the Grimms’ folktale “The Moon,” in which four travelers purchase the moon from a distant kingdom and bring it back to light their own, only to ultimately take a quarter with each of them to their graves. This causes the moon…
Ancestors and spirits of the dead return to the graveyard as a rooster calls at dawn. This is a painting by Arthur Rackham.

Bad Ancestors: Folklore, Ritual, and Responsibility

Ancestors. It’s a powerful word, but a difficult one for so many people, especially in these times when it is nearly impossible to avoid looking critically at the people who have made us. We see their flaws, their pain, the pain they caused others. Many of us turn away from them: through casual disinterest in…

31 Days of Ancestors: An Ancestor Work Project

I posted this on my Tumblr a few years ago, in a slightly different form, but I think it’s worth sharing here as well. It reflects my own process, albeit in a more organized approach, to digging into ancestor work. This method is specific and immersive, which allows for stronger connections that are crucial to…